Independent women intimidating men
You earn her first and foremost with your presence, your aliveness. She wants to talk to you about what matters to her and to feel you hearing her. She doesn’t want absent-minded groping or quick release sex. If you never discovered it you are living on borrowed time. Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than comfortable. [Read: Questions you shouldn’t ask your man] #1 A gorgeous woman Now don’t get us wrong, looks are pretty high in the wishlist of things that men want in a woman.But a drop dead gorgeous woman doesn’t really have to be born with a perfectly chiseled face and body crafted by the hands of the big guy on top when he’s high.
Most women assume that great looks is all that matters to make a guy swoon and fall head over heels in love. After all these years I still want to know who you are every day.” But only say it if you mean it, if you know it’s true. Before you lay your hand on her, notice the sensation in your hand. (This is sometimes called mindfulness.) Tell her about what you’re noticing, moment to moment. I provide couples therapy, marriage counselling, coaching and mentoring to individuals and couples on the issues that make or break relationships – Sessions by telephone/skype worldwide. Trying to grow, fix, change, understand or save your marriage? To be completely open – hearing and seeing without judgement. I bet once you start, once you get a taste, you won’t want to stop.